Almost everyone gets nervous, anxious and excited about their first date, both men as well as women. On a first date usually both individuals are trying their best to impress their date and try all sort of tricks. However, some tricks can back fire if done in an over-thetop manner. Here are some tips to help you out on your first date:
Going for a movie too, is a tried and tested method.
Going for your first date to a bowling alley, gokarting or a games arcade is a sure shot way to have loads of fun and break the ice at the fastest pace.
Dress code: If you’re going to a fancy restaurant it is alright to wear formals otherwise smart casuals are the way to go. That’ s because wearing casuals doesn’t make one conscious and behave in a very formal manner like its a business conference. Do not dress too seductively
either.
Odour check: You need to smell pleasant. But be careful not to empty your bottle of perfume on your clothes else your date will be unable to breathe because of the strong odour.
Talk: Avoid discussing controversial topics like capitol punishment, abortions etc. Also topics like family feuds, how unlucky are etc. These won’t end up giving a pleasant impression of your self.
Physical aspect: Don’t have any unrealistic expectations like having sex on your first date. Also since we are more conservative than western cultures sometimes even kissing on your first date might not be appropriate. If you really want to convey how much you like the person and the date, give a peck on his or her cheek, if you must.
No false hopes: If you did not enjoy your date, do not say statements like “we should do this again” and give the other person unnecessary false hopes. Similarly, if you did not like the person do not say that you like them. But at the same time, do not flatly say it was a terrible date and you wished this date never happened. Just keep mum!
Avoid discussing controversial topics on your date