I am a recently married, 26-year-old man. I suffer from three major problems. 1. I suffer from erectile dysfunction (my erection doesn't last for more than a few minutes). 2. I ejaculate very soon while having intercourse. 3. The semen that gets ejaculated is very thin. You suffer from premature ejaculation rather than ED. It doesn't matter if your semen is thick or thin, it will have the same number of sperms. Increase the foreplay till the first orgasm is achieved by her. Then start intercourse. If you finish quickly, ask her to help herself or use your fingers so she can achieve her second orgasm. You should consult a sexologist.
I had sex with my boyfriend in August for the first time. I had an i-pill after having sex. Since then, we have sex twice a month and I take a pill just to be safe. I have had nine pills by now, but I’ve heard that this can lead to serious side effects. Please suggest what I should do. We have tried having sex with a condom but it gets torn every time. I also don’t get my period on time, it’s either early or late. Please help.The i-pill is an emergency contraceptive pill. Because it contains a very high amount of hormones, it is not advisable to use it as a regular contraceptive. Your best bet is the condom. It is unusual that it tears every time you have sex. He should learn to use it properly. You could insert a barrier tablet called Today which disintegrates within the vagina and destroys sperms.
I am 32 and my wife is 30. Each time we have sex, I masturbate her vagina using coconut oil. After she gets an orgasm, I penetrate her using more oil. Is it okay to use condoms while using coconut oil as a lubricant? Are there any side effects to coconut oil? Oil might split the latex-based condom. Try other lubricants such as KY jelly or your or her saliva.
Can girls practise the start-and-stop method of masturbation? Please advise if and how it can be done.
Since girls do not suffer from premature ejaculation they do not have to. There are a few who reach orgasms fast. But since they can get many more orgasms in quick succession, they need not worry.
I am 28 years old. My wife is 31. She has been asking me to perform anal sex on her. Kindly advise what kind of lubrication we can use .You can wear a condom. But be careful because the female partner can receive lacerations around the anal region as it is more delicate than the vaginal tissue. If a condom is not used a severe infection can occur.
I am 28 and have been married for four years. My wife is three months pregnant. We had an active sexual life before her pregnancy. Abstinence from sex for the past three months is taking all the fun out of our physical relationship. Please advise if it’s possible for us to have sex? Also suggest the best positions so that the baby is not affected in anyway. Is it okay for her to attain an orgasm during this period? You must consult a gynecologist to know whether it is okay to have sex. It is usually fine to start after the third month of pregnancy and continue until the end of the eighth month. What stops you from having a lot of fun with foreplay? Use the sitting, side-to-side position or approach from the rear in a lying position. Her having an orgasm after the fourth month is fine.
I am a 16-year-old boy. I have a problem. I think I am not producing enough sperms these days. Please tell me if there is a medicine or cream which I can apply on my penis and increase sperm production. It’s not possible to see the microscopic sperms with the naked eye. What you see is the ejaculate, which is a combination of the seminal vesicle fluid and the microscopic sperms. The fluid helps the sperms with mobility inside the vagina. Little or more of the ejaculate makes no difference to the concentration of sperms in it and of your chances of conceiving a child.
I am 26 years old and recently married. I am happy with my sex life. To avoid pregnancy, I always use a condom with my partner, but I derive more pleasure without a condom. Currently, we are not planning a child. Can you tell me after how many days of my wife’s periods is it safe to have sex without a condom? There are no foolproof days. But it is virtually safe to have sex on the first seven days and last seven days of her regular menstrual cycle.
I’m 25 years old. I have been married for 15 days. We are going on our honeymoon next week. I have queries regarding our first sex. My wife got her periods three days ago. Will it be safe for us to have our first unprotected sex? We do not want to have children right now and want to have unprotected sex. Should she take contraceptive before the act.If she got her period three days ago, it is safe for a week from now. If she has a period, conception will not take place. No tablets are recommended unless the gynecologist advises the low hormone pills.
You said in one of your answers that squirting means that excess lubrication comes out. But I want to know if a woman can pass urine while having sex or while penetrating?No, nature has a valve to prevent the passing of urine during intercourse.
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I am 24 years old. While having sex with my girlfriend, it works well for the first round. And when we start sex for the second time, I lose my erection midway. This has been happening for the past three to four days. What should I do? Is this serious? Your body is just tired and is telling you so. Relax and do not do it for some time. Satisfy, and be satisfied with the first.
I get my periods on the 4th of every month. What is the best time to have sex? I don't want to get pregnant.If you have a regular 28-day cycle, the first and last seven days of the period are safe. A condom need not be used. On other days, please insist on a condom.
I am 38 years old and happily married. We have sex twice a week and enjoy foreplay. Of late, when we want to have sex, I ejaculate in less than a minute or so. Will stroking for longer satisfy my wife more? Can I use Viagra/spray to have an erection for a longer time? Is it true that once you start taking vigra/spray you lose normal sexual power? Does the Viagra/spray have any other side effects? And Is the spray applied when the penis is erect or flaccid?Since you have a premature ejaculation the silenafil (Viagra) may not do you much good. First, have a good health check up and eliminate diabetes. Your wife should also have a check to eliminate a vaginal infection. You can use a spray like Climax to delay the ejaculation. After entry, do not start stroking immediately. Wait inside till your excitement is under control. Also have sex at least 3 times a week.
I want to know the correct position to have sex in so that I can get pregnant soon. Is it necessary that my partner should continue lying on the bed after having sex? What is the maximum time that a person can lay in bed? Can sex during periods cause pregnancy?The man on top is found to be a preferable position. Ensure that her thighs are bent towards her abdomen at the moment you penetrate. Have sex every alternate day at least from the 8th day of her period (count from the first day). She should lie on the bed for at least half hour after sex. Pregnancy is not possible during the periods.
I’m 24 years old and my fiancée is 22 years old. We are going to get married soon. We have been in a relationship for seven years, but we have never had sex because we want to do it only after marriage. We have planned a two-week-long honeymoon. We don’t want to use a condom while we are on honeymoon because we want to feel each other; but we don’t want a child soon. So should she take a contraceptive pill every time we have sex?She should visit a gynecologist who will prescribe a low dosage hormone pill. If this is not possible, she should start taking Ovral L (one tablet daily) starting from the fifth day of her period and continue for 21 days. Ideally, she should start this at least one period cycle prior to the wedding.
In movies, I have seen that girls squirt while having an orgasm. How does one make a girl squirt? Is this the highest and the most pleasurable part of an orgasm?It is preferable for you to think of how and when you will squirt. On reaching orgasm, a woman may discharge some of her excess lubricating fluid.
I am a 26 year-old man. Following an accident in 2003, I suffer from severe back pain. Whenever I do any strenuous work such as weight lifting or taking long walks, the pain worsens. I don’t know anything about sex. I am getting married this summer. Is there any relation between sex and back pain? Can I have sex like a normal man? Will I be able to keep my wife satisfied? There is no reason that your back problem will interfere with your sex life. Please consult Dr Anant Sathe (25676442) for premarital counselling.
I am 30 years old and my wife is 27. We have been married for more than six months. Whenever we indulge in sex, I ejaculate within minutes. However, my wife does not get an orgasm and this leaves her unsatisfied. What can we do?Before you start, indulge in a lot of foreplay till she reaches an orgasm. After 5-10 minutes, start intercourse and she may reach her second orgasm. If you finish earlier, ask her to stroke against your body or you can caress her vagina till she reaches an orgasm.
I am 37 and my wife is 29. We have been married for five years and have a great marriage and sex. Recently she said she wanted to try anal sex. We googled it but have some doubts. What precautions should we take to avoid infection? Can we have anal sex without condoms since we are in a monogamous relationship and were virgins? Can we use neon lubic gel or similar lubricants?
Since you are having such a great time together why think of anal sex, but if you do, you must always use a condom. Use plenty of lubic gel, be gentle and find the most comfortable position. To help insertion she should strain downwards.
I am a 20-year-old man. Does masturbation without ejaculation harm the body?Yes, if you forcefully stop the ejaculation, the fluid will force its way into the bladder and damage the sphincter.