Passion in a relationship tends to fade with the passage of time. BT tells you how to rekindle that flame...
Sex in the early stages of a relationship is fun, exciting and has that 'wow' factor. But slowly as time passes that passionate flame in the relationship tends to dim. Your sex life may seem mundane like an old routine. The reasons could vary from growing distance in the relationship, lack of good communication, hectic work schedules and lack of quality spend, illness of a partner or simply lack of innovative ideas or experimentation. When this happens, it is a strong indicator that your boring sex life needs some definite spicing up! Here are some ways to bring that much needed zing to your sex life:
ACT AS THOUGH YOU JUSTMET HIM OR HER
When couples are in the initial stages of their relationship, they tend to be more sensitive about the other person. They take more care about their personal appearance and grooming in order to create a good impression. All these small but important things contribute to an exciting sex life, which later fizzles out due to taking things for granted.
GET A LINGERIE MAKEOVER
One of the reasons why a couple's sex life can become boring because the sexual activity becomes a boring routine. This can happen because individuals don't tend too woo their partner's attention since they already rote learn their pattern of sexual activity. Getting some new sexy lingerie is a sure way to heat things up!
PLAY SEX GAMES
This one's easy as you can use your to imagination come to life. You can play card games like strip poker or any other card games or even board games like monopoly or scrabble. The trick lies in inventing rewards and penalties, for e.g. penalty could involve stripping off clothes and the reward could include getting a lap dance.
SEEK NEW PLACES
You don't have to have sex in your bed, 365 days a year. Plan a second honeymoon, if that's not possible due to work schedules go for a romantic rendezvous over the weekend. Another option is to go camping in the woods. The charm of making love directly under a starry sky at night has to be experienced.
GO HI-TECH
Another way to boost your sagging sex life is by implementing use of gadgets like cameras to click pictures or a video camera to shoot videos. You could also use sex toys that you can buy online. The use of costumes is another great option. Dress up in the costume of a pop culture icon that your partner fancies and watch them get spellbound!